How Often Do You tell YouR SO/DH *I Love YoU*?

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How Often Do You tell YouR SO/DH *I Love YoU*?
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Mon, 09-19-2011 - 8:18pm
How Often Do You tell YouR SO/DH *I Love YoU*? Everyday
Several Times a day
Every day & every night
When I remember
At least once a week
Whenever he leaves (how Often is that?)
Other .. please share Results




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Tue, 09-20-2011 - 7:07am

We say it several times a day. I think of it like a word-hug, so I say it anytime I think about giving DH a hug, or when I think about all he does for me or how very much I love him. DH is the same way.

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Tue, 09-20-2011 - 9:34am
msally99 wrote:

We say it several times a day. I think of it like a word-hug, so I say it anytime I think about giving DH a hug, or when I think about all he does for me or how very much I love him. DH is the same way.




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Tue, 09-20-2011 - 11:27am

I'm not sure if my vote went through but I voted "several times a day".

We always say it before leaving for work and before bed and sign off emails and phone calls that way, too, although those aren't every day.

I know it sounds morbid but I've just heard so many stories of people who regretted not saying it and then suffering an accident or other tragedy. It might be small comfort but at least I would know it was out there.

RoseAnn

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Tue, 09-20-2011 - 11:54am
mrosie wrote:

I'm not sure if my vote went through but I voted "several times a day".

We always say it before leaving for work and before bed and sign off emails and phone calls that way, too, although those aren't every day.

I know it sounds morbid but I've just heard so many stories of people who regretted not saying it and then suffering an accident or other tragedy. It might be small comfort but at least I would know it was out there.

RoseAnn

Not morbid at all RoseAnn,
and I totally agree with you ..
Better to have said it then not.
Good you both do as often as you do :)





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Tue, 09-20-2011 - 10:33pm
I tend to do that for the same reason.

I only put "once a day" bc there are days when we aren't seperated and I'm not sure how many times we say it. I do know it's the last thing we say to each other when we are falling asleep.

Just last DH was acting strange after I said, "good night - love you." So I asked him what was wrong...he asked why he always has to come over to my side to kiss me good night (he does this EVERY night) and I was sleepy so I said, "because I don't really need to do that."

That lead to a discussion :)

Dee
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Tue, 09-20-2011 - 11:15pm
passion8te wrote:
I tend to do that for the same reason.

I only put "once a day" bc there are days when we aren't seperated and I'm not sure how many times we say it. I do know it's the last thing we say to each other when we are falling asleep.

Just last DH was acting strange after I said, "good night - love you." So I asked him what was wrong...he asked why he always has to come over to my side to kiss me good night (he does this EVERY night) and I was sleepy so I said, "because I don't really need to do that."

That lead to a discussion :)

Dee

Often is always best Dee,
Good to hear on the last thing before you go to sleep as well :)





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Sun, 09-25-2011 - 9:41am

First kiss in the morning is met with a

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Sun, 09-25-2011 - 10:15am

How great that is to hear,
Love the nicknames as well
Good you both say it often liek that too & in texts ;)




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Sun, 09-25-2011 - 1:46pm

Well they are important words and you never know when it will be the last time you say them to friends and family. Yes I tell my friends that I love them too.

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Sun, 09-25-2011 - 4:35pm
Oh yes I totally agree & use them often as well,
Even in texts with my sons ;)




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