I hope y'all don't mind...I need to vent. If a coworker
I feel for you!
I work in a very small department and get very frustrated when people don't bother to read emails or respond when it's called for. Last week, I got caught, though, because I skimmed an email about a meeting, didn't see my name and wasn't going to attend, until someone pointed out that the first time slot said "All". Fortunately, I wasn't the only one who had to be reminded but it was still embarassing to me to admit that!
It sounds like you're doing the right thing by keeping your copies of things handy. I hope you can get this sorted out soon so that you aren't paying for benefits that DH isn't using. To make lemonade out of lemons, maybe you should have DH go in for an eye exam while he has the coverage! ;)
Sugar - you have a good point, and I wasn't trying to get her in trouble. My issue is not with the fact that she may not know something. I don't believe that ignorance is something to be ashamed of. But instead of saying, "I don't know, let me check," she has given me incorrect information and/or talked rudely to me. I don't profess to be an HR expert (that's why I'm asking her!), but I ask questions because of specific issues that have come up for me in the past. She acts like I'm putting her out by contacting her - when she's the only HR contact we have!
And, really, my vent was more about the fact that my email was completely clear, and yet she didn't understand it (because she didn't *really* read it). KWIM?
For you and RoseAnn - you have a point about DH getting an exam while he
Are they going to reimburse you for all the contributions you've made? If not, I think you're entitled to use the benefit!
I don't require vision correction but I go in every couple of years for an eye exam just to make sure everything is still OK. ;)
RoseAnn - you're right, it wouldn't be a bad idea for DH to have a baseline exam at some point. But with him in school, and the other things we have going on, there's no way it would happen before our new insurance year begins on June 1.
They are going to reimburse me for the premiums I've paid - it's only about $10, LOL. It wasn't about the money (obviously). I've never had a company make an error on benefits like that; I guess from now on I'll have to check everything more carefully (which I should have been doing anyway).
Oh, I know you weren't criticizing, Sugar - hope you didn't feel like I took offense. And you're right, her attitude
Sorry for chiming in so late on this Carol,Definitely you are not being too sensitive about this.My goodness this woman sounds like she has a problem, LOLPeople do tend to not read *all through* before answering sadly.It's all her & not you
Dee - I don't know what her background is, but I would bet it's not HR. I've only been face-to-face with her once, and that was at a company luncheon. We work in different offices and have no reason to ever see each other. From what I've heard, she was hired as assistant to our controller (who was handling everything from accounting to payroll and benefits), and has just fallen into the HR position.
What you said in your second paragraph was very interesting: I don't like to bug people if I don't have to, and I'd be happy to look for answers in our employee manual. The problem is that there are no answers. The manual is very vague and full of "call this company with questions about health benefits" or "call this company with questions about 401(k)."
The questions I was asking her were specific to my situation. An example: my benefits started on X date, but she'd told me that my first payroll deduction would not be until 2 weeks later in the month. Because DH is a full-time student, we rely on my income and we budget very carefully. I needed to know if that first payroll deduction would be for the regular amount only, or if there would be a "catch-up" amount, since I was insured before I began paying premiums. I tried not to be a pest; I saved up my questions and would email her 3 or 4 at a time (and I only sent two emails with questions). It's just frustrating because the only way to get answers is to contact her, and she obviously doesn't want to be bothered.
I do agree with you that because it's