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|Tue, 04-24-2012 - 11:02pm|
We have been married 14 yrs and together for 17. My husband complains a lot about me not being nurturing and feminine. I never have been much of either. We adopted our son when he was 8 yrs old. Because of our son's past abuse I had to spend a lot of my time nurturing him. Our son is now 19 and very normal. My husband has always been jealous of the time i spent being a mom. Now it seems dh is becoming more clingy and child like. When he is sick, he wants me to cuddle with him and take care of him. He gets clingy which I can't stand. I feel like his mommy not his wife. He gets migraine and won't go to work. I work then come home And cook and clean. Then he wants me to take care of him. His neediness is a turn off. Is there something wrong with me?