Sex and Marriage?

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Registered: 12-11-2010
Sex and Marriage?
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Sat, 09-22-2012 - 10:38pm
Lady's I have been having a bit of an issue latel. I am 25 and I am a Virgin and I am saving myself for marriage but a lot of the guys I've been talking too say they can't wait until marriage and say "its not natural or good for a relationship to wait that long" or say "you wouldn't buy a car without test driving it would you?" to me I have stood my ground this long and I am not backing down and want to wait until marriage but yet I don't know if that special guy will come and wait for me. What should I do?

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Registered: 04-08-2008
Tue, 09-25-2012 - 9:37pm
If you want to wait, then go ahead and wait. Whatever works for you.

But if you think making him wait it going to guarantee you that "he's the one', then you might be disappointed. Of course I don't believe in the "the one"...so take my advice for what it's worth.

Your title is a little off bc this question has nothing to do w/married sex (which was my hope). And more to do with virginity and losing it.

My question to you would be why would I wait? I have no religious views holding me back. I have no issues with sexuality. And I don't feel the need to make my future partners jump through hoops or pass a litmus test to be with me. I just go from gut and it's fared me well in life.

GL,

Dee

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