wife confirmed my size insecurities

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wife confirmed my size insecurities
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Mon, 02-07-2011 - 2:42pm

i've alwasy been insecure about my "size".

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Mon, 02-07-2011 - 5:21pm

Well, it's too bad that you felt the need to press until you got an answer that hurt your feelings. I'm not sure why you would do that to yourself or to your DW.

I don't really have any advice in this area. I have only been with DH so I don't have any means for comparison.

There is that saying: "It's not the size of the ship but the motion of the ocean." Maybe you and your DW need to focus on other aspects of your physical relationship and make sure that you are both getting what you need to feel fulfilled and appreciated.

Good luck!

RoseAnn

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Tue, 02-08-2011 - 8:36am

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Tue, 02-08-2011 - 3:29pm

Thanks, Rosie!

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Tue, 02-08-2011 - 5:24pm

Trust me on this, I am going to be blunt,

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Tue, 02-08-2011 - 6:58pm

Hi & welcome to the board :)

I really like what others have suggedted,
Especially the last reply to you.
Hopefully you can get over this, move on & enjoy the closeness with your DW :)




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Wed, 02-09-2011 - 9:52am

thank you so much Misstryg!

It is so reasuring to read your comments.

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Wed, 02-09-2011 - 9:54am

thanks, Hugs!

it is so nice to have a place to talk about this.

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Wed, 02-09-2011 - 10:52am
bobdc2009 wrote:

thanks, Hugs!

it is so nice to have a place to talk about this.




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Wed, 02-09-2011 - 11:28am

Thanks again, Hugss!

It has been my little secret my whole life, but just telling a few people on this site lessens the burden.

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Wed, 02-09-2011 - 12:46pm

Many guys has this idea that bigger is better, but there is very few women that can take a

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