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|Mon, 11-05-2012 - 7:35pm|
HI, first and foremost thank you for reading this and support!
Now, here's the issue:
I have been in a live together relationship with the same guy for 6 years, we've been engaged for about 2. I have a son from my previous marriage. I have the sole full-time job. He hasn't worked full-time in 4 years (I know the economy is hard, but...). He's always told me he's looking for a job and that he's trying really hard, except this past weekend he let it slip to me that he stopped looking. He's got a part time job that is not even pocket change worthy.
I'm beside myself, upset, outraged, completely thrown.
I know I want better for myself and my son. I know I cannot support the three of us much longer. I have told him I feel like I'm burning out, increasingly bitter, left out. I have to now work more and more hours to make ends meet! If I wanted a nanny trust me I would have gotten a nanny! I want a family, a marriage, and a life together (maybe a vacation too so I can relax and not deal with this stress). I am weighting the "is it worth it cost."
Any ideas? Thanks!