Agony over a prenup
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|Tue, 05-25-2004 - 1:43pm|
Here is my issue: while I am trying to give him what he needs, I don't feel like he recognizes the emotional effort that I am putting in for him. Everyone he seems to talk to communicates that they are pro-prenup and that they aren't a big deal. In my world, I don't even know anyone who has one and have not talked to a woman yet who would want one. It makes me feel like we are coming from different worlds, which I find very frustrating and demoralizing.
Does anyone know about surveys or studies that have been done around prenups and women's feelings?
Any thoughts of your own to share that would be helpful?
I want to marry this man, but also want him to recognize my feelings as valid and normal.
I would really appreciate your ideas and support here.