Am I overeacting?
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|Fri, 06-04-2010 - 1:43pm|
so first the background....neighbor G moved in 6 months ago. He has become good friends with DH to the point DH spends a lot of time next door. G gets a GF about 3 months ago. DH now goes next door even more, looks out the window every time he hears her car, which granted it's the only car they have, also my eyebrows are light so I darken them he knows I'm sensitive about this, he made a joke about it when I did go over there. I'll admit a little jealousy as when she first started coming around I had put on 10 lbs( I've since lost 5...yay me) and DH must have said 20 times that she was just a little thing. Whenever I said he goes over there all the time he said that I'm welcome to come whenever I want...I have an 8you DD at home and a new dog so I don't go over all the time...So...
I have talked to him about the jealousy and what I felt was a lack of attn on his part. I explained that I wouldn't feel so jealous if he were paying more attn to me. He has been better.
Last night G gets into a motorcycle accident a few blocks from the house and is taken to the ER. His GF comes to our house before going to the hospital to tell DH about the accident. She pulls up honks, when no one came out she knocked on the door. Crying, obviously upset. DH goes outside to talk to her. We originally thought it was DD knocking so I was in the other room.
Am I the only one who finds this weird? Wouldn't you go to the hosp first then worry about telling anyone? She's only known DH 3 months....