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|Mon, 08-16-2010 - 7:45pm|
looking for insight -- and/or folks who relate.
Communication is a priority, right. My BF and I had a communication breakdown this past weekend. First of all, let me catch most of you up to speed. My BF officially moved in at the beginning of Aug. I guess it's a long story of our new arrangment but basically, he babysits now from 2pm - 6pm nightly. The trade, I guess, is that i'm still paying all the bills and all the rent (and the grocery bill too). The only utility I asked him to help out is Electricity since he likes the A/C on more than me.
About after a week, he told me I have made his life so much better. He's told me since we first started getting serious that he finally feels he is right where he needs to be. He tells me he loves me constantly.
But then this past week, he started getting short with me. He seemed to bark orders at me. I felt either I was getting in his way, or not doing enough,... didn't know what was going on. I felt like he was using a disrespectful tone and he seemed angry or annoyed all the time. I noticed this behavior early on in dating, too,