did I make a mistake again??

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-29-2010
did I make a mistake again??
Wed, 09-29-2010 - 12:25pm
Hi! I am new to these boards and love the fact that there are other people out there struggling w/ second marriages and not just me. I am considering leaving my 2nd husband. I have two kids with my first and one with him. Its a complex situation and I don't now where to start!Right now I can't really do anything since I haven't been able to find a good paying job. I feel like I am trapped and no where to go.
Community Leader
Registered: 08-25-2006
Wed, 09-29-2010 - 1:33pm

Welcome Ally!

You are definately welcome here.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-04-2006
Wed, 09-29-2010 - 6:22pm

Hi and welcome to the board Ally.

There are many of us here working on a second marriage, or a third, or may not even be in a marriage. But we're all struggling (or struggled) with all the things that come with a second marriage. Ex's, step kids, in-laws, etc.

If you did want advice or anything, you'll definitely need to give us more information. If you didn't, then welcome and read the boards.


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iVillage Member
Registered: 07-09-2007
Thu, 09-30-2010 - 11:22am

Hi, ally!

I am not here to judge but still you the children are involved with these mistakes. I have an example with my DSD, who has now two kids 3 y.o. and 1 month as a result of two mistakes. The mother says she is happy now on her own with children, they are the happy family of 3 (well, she is lucky the fathers and my DH are paying for that) but what about the children who will never know what the real family should be like or maybe in this century full of global problems like peace threat, bad ecology and climate change this is not an issue anymore.