did u take his last name?
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|Mon, 06-21-2010 - 12:20pm|
OK I'm going to just purge some EMOTIONS right now ... reader BEWARE!!! Can I ask you ladies - for your second marriage (or 3rd or 4th) did you take his last name?
Because - hear me now - I will NOT DO IT! Not under any circumstances! I have so many things with my STUPID other last name - like all of the running medals and certificates I got from my races. Academic certificates - that sort of stuff - with my FIRST husband's STUPID last name. And I tell you this ...
I feel VERY MUCH like I should have LEFT that first marriage MUCH sooner. And if I ever do get married again - I do honestly think I want it ALL set up so I can GET OUT - if I need to. You know?
OK - I know you ladies & gents are going to have a hey-day with this post!!! i'm probably not ready to be married again. lol. YES I KNOW!
And you know what else - I don't think people ever do HEAL from deep betrayal. I really don't. Hopefully we get smarter. But do we ever heal? I don't believe so. We move on. We re-focus. But, heal??? What does that even mean?
Emotional rant complete.