The Ex-Wife

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Registered: 10-20-2003
The Ex-Wife
Mon, 05-10-2004 - 7:07pm
Hello :-)

Long story short I moved to a little town in Aug and met a guy by Nov and married him Feb 22nd. Never a second thought in my mind as to any of it. Been very happy.

The concern comes with his ex-wife. We've both been married before and have children with previous spouses. I talk to mine every now and then. We're still friends. Just never really talk unless it's something about our son. My husbands ex though calls pretty regularly, like pretty much every day. I was jealous while we were dating but he talked to her and it slowed way down, plus then her husband was around so she wasn't really allowed to call. But now is different. He's gone and she just had a baby. She calls every day for everything. I even asked my husband the other day if she realized they weren't married anymore. Well I finally broke down and told him to talk to her and tell her she couldn't call every day. Well he took it too far and said he just wont talk to her anymore and he wont go near her except to get the kids. He said he wont even go to his daughters sports games if she's going to be there. He took it too far and now I feel terrible. WHAT DO I DO??
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Registered: 03-27-2003
In reply to: kalebandme
Tue, 05-11-2004 - 8:47am

First of all don't feel terrible.