extreme pre-wedding jitters.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-23-2010
extreme pre-wedding jitters.
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Tue, 03-23-2010 - 3:40pm

The short version of my story goes like this:


My first marriage was a match made in a very hot and firey place.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-20-2008
Wed, 03-24-2010 - 9:39am

Hi and welcome!


Your jitters sound a lot like how I felt.

The choices we make in thought, word and deed inevitably return to us in kind.


iVillage Member
Registered: 07-07-2008
Thu, 03-25-2010 - 6:00pm

There are not garauntees.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-20-2008
Fri, 03-26-2010 - 9:49am

Oh, I always have lingering thoughts, but to cover it all would take volumes.

The choices we make in thought, word and deed inevitably return to us in kind.


iVillage Member
Registered: 10-30-2004
Fri, 03-26-2010 - 10:37am

Hi there!!


I'm in kind of a similiar boat as you are.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-03-2008
Fri, 03-26-2010 - 11:29am

Butterfly, I felt like you at one point in life.




iVillage Member
Registered: 07-07-2008
Fri, 03-26-2010 - 5:50pm

I just couldn't shake the jitters that I had about my ability to see my partner for who he was because I didn't see my first DH for what he was.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-07-2008
Fri, 03-26-2010 - 5:53pm

It does come back to the forgiveness piece and I know I haven't fully done the work in that area.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-20-2008
Mon, 03-29-2010 - 3:02pm

for·give 




/fərˈgɪv/ Show Spelled Show IPA
verb,-gave, -giv·en, -giv·ing.


–verb (used with object)
1.
to grant pardon for or remission of (an offense, debt, etc.); absolve.

2.
to give up all claim on account of; remit (a debt, obligation, etc.).

3.
to grant pardon to (a person).

4.
to cease to feel resentment against: to forgive one's enemies.

5.
to cancel an indebtedness or liability of: to forgive the interest owed on a loan.

The choices we make in thought, word and deed inevitably return to us in kind.


iVillage Member
Registered: 07-07-2008
Mon, 04-05-2010 - 10:05am

I think I am just so fearful that the same scenario will play itself out again and I'll be even more ashamed and embarrassed b/c I would have gone into it knowingly.

Community Leader
Registered: 08-25-2006
Mon, 04-05-2010 - 12:13pm

Does any of this make sense??? LOL

Serenity