ExW is a constant annoyance
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|Mon, 05-03-2010 - 1:07pm|
I have been in a very committed relationship with a wonderful man for just over 2 years. I get along wonderfully with his 2 kids and he's gets along similarly with mine. There's absolutely nothing I would chance regarding our relationship....except his ex-wife...
They have been divorced for 4 years and she has supposedly moved on (has been dating the same man for almost a year now) yet she seemingly spends all of her free time thinking of ways to make my life hell.
I have never officially met the ex although I do know who she is and her family since we grew up in the same town only a few years apart. So, for all intent and purposes, atleast in my opinion, there is no reason for her to lash out at me as she has. She continually spreads untrue and nasty rumors about me, she posts offensive and hurtful statements about me and my kids on Facebook, she sends my BF threatening texts of how she's going to kick my a$$ if she ever runs into me, etc. My BF has done his part in getting her to back-off but really there's nothing he can do....it's not like she's going to listen to anything he has to say. This all seems so "high school" and I know I should just look the other way and be the bigger person, but I cannot even begin to explain how much these things bother and hurt me. It's causing a problem between me and my BF since I can't imagine having to deal with these situations for years to come.
Has anyone experienced anything similar? Does anyone have any suggestions on how I should deal with this?