I don't think you are a bad grandma at all!
I think it's just an illusion that we are naturally going to love stepchildren and stepgrandchildren as much as we love our own relatives.
I don't personally think it has to do with biology. It's because you've known your grandson longer and their personalities are probably different! Just because you don't feel "warm fuzzies" now it doesn't mean that in a few years you
Thanks for replying.
Oh, I'm definitely nice to him and have no problem with him at all.
I think at age 3 you don't really have to do gender specific activities--you can do things like coloring, arts and crafts, puzzles, simple games, play catch.
Here we go again...more guilt.