My kids and I moved in with DF in summer 2011.
I think being the Disney dad is not the answer--kids should be able to spend time w/ their parents just hanging around and doing normal family things.
It is a lot more serious than this... he can't go with his eldest for dinner, she wont even respond to his emails!
That is very odd.
that's a good question, sounds like the mom definitely has a role in this. She should be encouraging DD to communicate with Dad and not encouraging the distance.
Its sad when parents let personal feelings interfere with child parent relationships.
Serenity, have you ever wondered what happened for your DH daughters not to want to have a relationship with him?