I have a question for every one.
My soon-to-be DH and I have been going through counseling. I didn't have a good communication w my ex in the prev marriage, my DF's was even worse. We both really wanted to make this work no matter what and we feel that neither of us have ever had a good model of marriage/relationship from either of our parents or from our past relationships. I'm reading relationship books that our counsellor suggested fervently. I feel that I've grown a lot personally in this relationship that I've ever been in my life. I know that my DF has also been making a lot of efforts to understand a different perspective from me. Trust me, this is a very difficult thing to do for two very-stubborn adults ...lol.
I do believe you, because my bf and
I've been seperated from my first dh since Jan. 2004, our divorce will be final in Sept 26, 2004. I am planning on getting remarried in 2006. I've known my stb dh since we were kids and now 15 yrs later we're back together .
Well, between the first and second marriages there was a committed relationship from which I got my son. My 1st divorce was filed after I was with my son's father. It was final within 2 weeks of his birth. My 2nd marriage was when my son was 13 months old in '83. My 2nd divorce was final three days before my 3rd marriage in '85.
He was so depressed when I broke up with him and he became angry when he found out that later I started dating DF. He harrassed me, asking me what on earth I saw in DF, saying that DF was not nearly as good-looking as he was, etc. I knew I made the right decision breaking up with him!