It's been awhile-update

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Registered: 08-09-2007
It's been awhile-update
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Tue, 02-16-2010 - 2:09pm

Hi Everyone,


It's been awhile since I've posted here. DH has been working PT and mostly taking care of the baby. I'm working hideous hours to make up for it :( It sucks. Our marriage is doing well. We had some rocky points as I recovered from PPD. I think that that's over now! Yeah!


Both of us are up for CS reviews, so as you can imagine, things are quite tense with the X's.


XH made the announcement to me a few weeks ago that he is getting married! To the OW in our marriage! Quite a surprise.


One beautiful thing that has happened, bc DSD's mom has been rather evil lately is that DH has decided to-wait for it-wait for it-FOLLOW HIS COURT ORDER! YEAH!!!!


All in all things are going well. :)

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iVillage Member
Registered: 11-20-2008
Wed, 02-17-2010 - 8:59am

HW - Glad you are doing well!

The choices we make in thought, word and deed inevitably return to us in kind.


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Registered: 10-30-2004
Wed, 02-17-2010 - 11:06am

Somethings at sometimes could have been construed as 'evil' by my ex or his friends.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-03-2008
Wed, 02-17-2010 - 11:27am

It's good to hear that things are going better!!


CS reviews?




iVillage Member
Registered: 08-09-2007
Wed, 02-17-2010 - 11:57am

I guess I am weird in that every time someone write on the board that the ex is 'evil' or a 'beotch' or whatever other thing...they are addressing me because I am an ex too.

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Registered: 11-20-2008
Wed, 02-17-2010 - 2:26pm

I know it's written that I/he has the option of calling for a review if we feel circumstances have changed enough.

The choices we make in thought, word and deed inevitably return to us in kind.


iVillage Member
Registered: 07-07-2008
Thu, 02-18-2010 - 6:13pm

Interesting that the same provision about doing a CS review was built into both of your divorce decrees.


Question-A review is not the same as the process one goes through for emancipation is it?

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Registered: 08-09-2007
Sat, 02-20-2010 - 2:51pm

Interesting that the same provision about doing a CS review was built into both of your divorce decrees.


We had the same attorney, DH was divorced two years before me but the same guy.


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Registered: 08-25-2006
Mon, 02-22-2010 - 2:18pm

Hey Bella!

Serenity
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Registered: 07-07-2008
Tue, 02-23-2010 - 4:22pm

Yes, Serenity, I was thinking more in terms of the cut the financial support ties for a soon to be 18 year old that we both believed wouldn't be attending college and going out to get a 40 hour a week job, hence "emancipation".

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Registered: 02-20-2002
Tue, 02-23-2010 - 7:50pm

When my SO originally agreed to the amount of CS (he pays more than what the state says he should/and the length of time of the alimony), who could've ever predicted the fall of the economy?


Bella,


Sorry to jump in without reading more than this post....but has he checked into having CS recalculated based on current incomes?

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