Love - The Real Thing

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Registered: 11-20-2008
Love - The Real Thing
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Mon, 04-19-2010 - 12:55pm

Reprinted from the Daily OM.


The choices we make in thought, word and deed inevitably return to us in kind.


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Registered: 11-20-2008
Wed, 04-21-2010 - 10:55am

So, this has been here for three days, and I am wondering what people think?

The choices we make in thought, word and deed inevitably return to us in kind.


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Registered: 07-09-2007
Fri, 04-23-2010 - 7:14am

I feel very good about in this marriage which I did not too in my first one.
The first time I got married young and at that time I did not know myself what i wanted from a man and my ex-H seemed to me OK. I must say most of the time I felt myself happy but never peaceful and relaxed. That was because of my ex-h personality which I am not sure it was possible to change. He was willing to change or he said he did but his intention never lasted long. Anyway, I have a son from him and he taught me many good things and I was happy once with him so I only keep good memories of that marriage.

Now there is never a day (perhaps an hour) passes when I do not say in my mind how much I love my H. I am only confused a bit that I am still SO very passionate about him. It is 7 years already, I read that passion is different from love and it passes but if I were less passionate!!! Now my Fh is in mission and every time he is away I cannot bear it, I miss him so much already the next day that nothing can stop me waiting for the call or for the mail, whatever I am doing the really thing on my mind is when can I go again and check if there is a letter. And when I open my mail my heart is so racing that sometimes i feel I can faint. The same is when the telephone rings. he might tell me it is only one week but every time he goes I am full of horror as I know I will suffer every minute of it.

But what letters he writes to me!!! I think it might even worth of going away, I have a library of love letters masterpieces.

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Registered: 02-20-2002
Fri, 04-23-2010 - 1:28pm

Well, to be honest, I didnt really look at this thread until today.