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|Mon, 05-10-2004 - 9:39pm|
My divorce was finalized last November and his is still being hashed out - but getting close. She is (depending on the day) finally cooperating with him and the lawyers. Needless to say she hates me and most days him too and uses their kids as pawns whenever she feels the need. We have decided to move in together (after a lot of consideration), so we move this weekend. I'm really looking forward to this new start for us. But I'm dreading it too. Up to this point, I haven't had to really deal with her. You know out of sight out of mind. The only dealing I've had is when he has had to deal with her crap and I'm helping him get over her harsh words/actions. So I’m not looking forward to our first interaction. But I’m a strong rational person so I’m sure it will be ok.
Anyway, that is my story in a nutshell. I hopefully will be a lurker more then a poster, meaning I won’t need to post my rants and seek advice because of her too often. lol But any advise on ways to deal are always welcome. I’m not the type of person to sit on the sidelines, so advice on how to do that sometimes would be helpful too. I’m looking forward to finding out more about you all. Have a great day!