Moved on to soon !!
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|Wed, 06-04-2003 - 4:46pm|
I hoping you may be able to offer a little insight. I have been with BF for 4 years and we have been discussing marriage recently. Everything has been great so far and then all of a sudden he decided that he didn't want our relationship anymore.
To give you some background he was previously married and meet him while going through his separation, we were very careful and took things very slowly for the first 1 1/2, I always wondered weather he was moving on to quick so asked him continuously and he always said he had emotionally left the marriage long ago. He was only married about 1 ½ so I took what he said at face. Anyway we have had a wonderful relationship ever since however he has now decided that he needs time on his own to figure out who he is. He says now he should have taken time right after the divorce.
I don’t know what to do he is very confused, I have moved out and understand his need for time to figure stuff out ? I think what brought this all on was his talk of marriage and him needed to figure everything out before he got married again.
Should I move on ? Should I wait ? Our relationship was fantastic so it is hard ? I know he loves me still but needs to do this for himself – and I totally understand that and will give him his time and space that he needs – but how long should I wait ?
He doesn’t want to close the book on us but he also needs to do this for himself ?
Just not sure what to do ?