My 2nd husband is now my 2nd X
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|Thu, 05-27-2010 - 4:23pm|
Not so sure this is the right place to be, as my 2nd marriage didn't work :(
We've been divorced since October 2009... and recently are flirting and doing lots of stuff together as a family!!
His family are very happy with the way things are.. we spend part of the weekends with them (me and my sons) and his sister (who was once all for us leaving each other) is now rooting for us to get back together..
I am not sure if we are going to get back together, but many indications show that eventually we will be back together (even my 1st X says we're going to get back together)
A bit of background info: we separated after he hit me the first time in Augustof 2008.. and got back together in October 2008. It was turbulent and something was missing.. we had major financial problems, not to mention his meddling interfering sister.. and eventually I left the house, and started divorce proceedings in April, the divorce was finalised in October 2009. After a couple of very yucky months of fights over visitation and loads of accusations from both sides.. we sat down and had a good heart to heart and cleared up many misunderstandings that existed..
Now we are wonderful together, talk every day, go out and do stuff, sometimes without the kids.. sort of like dating... which we didnt ever really geta chance to do since when we got to know each other (ironically it was his sister who introduced us to each other!!) there was my son and I was a single mom.. so he more or less got into an immediate ready made family!!
It is fun and I think we're both enjoying the current flirting and getting to know each other on a new basis!
But what next? should I just go on a day to day basis? I dont want to have any expectations and then get disappointed!!!