I can't and would want to give you advice on this.
The choices we make in thought, word and deed inevitably return to us in kind.
I changed my name to dh's.
Off Topic....but I love your "National Sarcasm Society" button!
("like we need your support").....!!
First I have to say I find it interesting that some posters have asked their children what they think?
I am usually VERY aware of adult vs kids decisions so to speak however, in this instance I felt it would have a big impact on my youngest.