Need help with household situation.....
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|Wed, 04-09-2003 - 1:28pm|
The older sd has guys over the house to stay over and they sleep her in room in her bed.
THey aren't boyfriends, they are "friends." To me, if you are sleeping with someone in a bed, they are a little more than just "friends." In a matter of a year, she has had at least 4 different guys sleep in her room. To me, this is inappropriate and when I tell my DH, of course, he doesn't want to hear about it. There has been once or twice where he says he will speak to her about it, but I don't think that has happened.
The way things work in this house is that he handles the issues, and even if I did say something to her, I would probably get laughed at. One because I am not her BM and that means that she doesn't have to respond to me or listen to me. It has been this way since day one, and DH doesn't stick up for me. He says I should stay out of it, and for the most part, with this issue, I have stayed out of it. I just don't think it is proper for her to do this. Am I off base here? I don't know what to do anymore. I don't know how to get through to DH about this, because when I talk to him about it, he gets upset.
I just think her behavior is rude, inappropriate and disrespectful. Nevermind her not having any respect for herself. She claims these guys are "just friends" of hers. Well, in my opinion, when they stay over in her room, they are more than just friends. My DH says it doesn't mean that they were doing anything. I told him that I'm not dumb and this is the year 2003 -- I mean DH needs to GET A GRIP!
Any suggestions or advice is appreciated!!!