Hey thanks for responding! I appreciate it immensley...
HA! No I'm no mirror flexer. But I've gone from size 46 waist to 32 waist in a little more than a year. I don't brag about it, nor do I have the physique of AHNOLD! HA!
I'm more like Gerard Butler now. Just toned. Normal. But compared to my past existence, a world's difference. I've never judged women based on their looks. I've been with heavy girls, skinny girls, inbetween girls, I prefer thicker girls but it doesn't matter. I like curves.
But I'm glad you said who I was then, not NOW...I think if I just go to the gym while she works and just don't ever talk about it unless she brings it up things will be ok.
I do think there is some insecurity there--maybe she is insecure about her looks or body and figured that when you were overweight, she had the upper hand and now that you have lost so much weight & gotten very fit, she is wondering if you are going to go off w/ one of the fit girls in the gym.
I am also curious about the dates.