Oh, I am not welcome in your home now!

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-15-2011
Oh, I am not welcome in your home now!
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Tue, 11-15-2011 - 11:15am

Had a horrible falling out with 29-year old SD whom I raised.

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Community Leader
Registered: 08-25-2006
Mon, 08-18-2014 - 5:54pm

You might want to kind of "start over" with your story and post again.  

Serenity

Serenity
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-15-2011
Thu, 08-14-2014 - 12:36pm

This has now been ongoing for 3 years.  SD has had a baby and I am absolutely NOT ALLOWED to see baby in any way.  I found out that the mother that abandoned her has moved back up here, stayed with she and her husband for a month before baby was born.  Step son told my DH and me that his mom has been bad mouthing me to both of them really bad.  She had turned my son-in-law's parents and my brother and sister-in law against me.  I am not considered NOT A FAMILY MEMBER???? WTF

Community Leader
Registered: 08-25-2006
Fri, 11-18-2011 - 12:45pm
Hard to say, but definately possible. Regardless, there are pieces missing from this puzzle that no one has given you yet. I hope you can get them but it if not, again, you may just have to accept it and hope that some day things will change.

The story just doesn't add up, and sometimes it is pointless to try and figure it out.

I hope you stick around! Very curious if you are able to get to the bottom of this.

Serenity
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-15-2011
Fri, 11-18-2011 - 11:37am

My DH and his younger brother have been estranged for almost a year.

Community Leader
Registered: 08-25-2006
Wed, 11-16-2011 - 12:23pm

Hmmm...I am thinking there is more to the story.

Serenity
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-13-2010
Tue, 11-15-2011 - 2:56pm

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-15-2011
Tue, 11-15-2011 - 1:33pm

Yes, you are right.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-21-2011
Tue, 11-15-2011 - 1:16pm

That is just odd. Sounds like you are on the right track, like DS has some issues and is trying to keep SIL apart fro the rest of you.

My only advice, stay out of it and let DH deal with it. I guess. I wish you the best!

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-15-2011
Tue, 11-15-2011 - 12:06pm
As far as I know, BM still just calls once a week, but am not sure. Her MO is that she lives almost 2,000 miles away and they talk once a week and see each other about once a year.
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-15-2011
Tue, 11-15-2011 - 12:04pm

We got along fantastic, very close.

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