out with the old in with the new

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-09-2009
out with the old in with the new
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Mon, 05-10-2010 - 12:56am

Here I am for advise/input again ladies...


Recently, it came to my attention that DF's code for his bank account (which we intend to share) as well as the parental control on his tv involves personal info about his exW.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-20-2002
Mon, 05-10-2010 - 9:28am

No, I dont think you're asking too much at all.


As for the picture, I'm guessing he doesnt even *realize* it is there....I think we've had this discussion on here on another thread once,....but it's real "human nature" to have something sitting around that you dont even "see"/realize is there anymore.........it obviously is on your mind enough to mention it here---I bet if you just asked him about it, he wouldnt even know what you were referring to!---.......so I think you should walk by it one day when he's at your side, and say, "hey, do you mind keeping this somewhere else?".........


>..>>>>>>>>>my guess:

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-20-2008
Mon, 05-10-2010 - 9:35am

Ok, first of all, no one can tell you how to feel or how not to feel.

The choices we make in thought, word and deed inevitably return to us in kind.


Community Leader
Registered: 08-25-2006
Mon, 05-10-2010 - 12:40pm

I don't think there is anything wrong with asking to change a bank code that his xW, or anyone else for that matter, might have memorized.

Serenity
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-31-2010
Tue, 05-11-2010 - 1:27pm

I agree w/ the pp's.

Community Leader
Registered: 08-25-2006
Thu, 05-13-2010 - 2:51pm

I told him they were wedding pictures and maybe exw wanted them or he wanted to save them for his kids when they got older and he said no, he just wanted them thrown away.

Serenity
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-20-2008
Mon, 05-17-2010 - 9:13am

I hear what you are saying.

The choices we make in thought, word and deed inevitably return to us in kind.


Community Leader
Registered: 08-25-2006
Mon, 05-17-2010 - 12:41pm

It is one those things I always talk about on here.

Serenity