Update to the update!

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-26-2011
Update to the update!
Tue, 08-02-2011 - 9:53am
Well guess what my DS's ended up staying at their biodads afterall!! Woohoo party time! (I stlill have 3 kids at home who am I kidding) but anyway a break is still a break! And you know someone replied to another post of mine something that made me think. I need to have my DH be a more active in taking care of my SS, that is probably true and I do resent the fact that I literally do everything for him when he is here but here's my problem, if I let my DH take over he just let's SS do what ever he wants to and that drives me crazier so I just do it myself! So does that just make me a control freak?
Community Leader
Registered: 08-25-2006
Tue, 08-02-2011 - 12:18pm

Does that make you a control freak?

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-22-2007
Thu, 08-04-2011 - 4:42am

As the mum of an autistic son, perhaps I can help you figure out what's acceptable and what's not.

My basic premise is picking my battles.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-03-2008
Thu, 08-04-2011 - 5:06pm

I believe it was me that suggested having your DH be more responsible whenever his DS is there.