update....thanks for the advice

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-14-2010
update....thanks for the advice
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Tue, 05-04-2010 - 5:10pm

Here is an update...It has been 2 weeks and things have been really good here.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-20-2002
Tue, 05-04-2010 - 5:33pm

YEA !

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-14-2010
Tue, 05-04-2010 - 8:11pm

Oh I will!

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-20-2008
Wed, 05-05-2010 - 9:21am

Hi!

The choices we make in thought, word and deed inevitably return to us in kind.


iVillage Member
Registered: 02-20-2002
Wed, 05-05-2010 - 10:05am

One other question for you...do you ever feel like you have to hold your tongue too much to satisy the situation? or have you gotten to a place where you can say how it is?? Do you ever feel like it compromises your relationship?

Community Leader
Registered: 08-25-2006
Wed, 05-05-2010 - 11:44am

Melly, glad things are going better.

Serenity
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-20-2008
Wed, 05-05-2010 - 2:39pm

PS: To Pam:


ugh, yes, I"m going through similar things with my college age sons...........yeah, they wont *listen* to my advice any more than I wanted to listen to my folks...........but then, when I see them continue down what I see to be the WRONG street........>>>>>>>>I think, if I dont say "anything"........who will?


And when they come to their senses later ..........will they say, "mom, why didnt you SAY anything to me then?"...........


HAHA!

The choices we make in thought, word and deed inevitably return to us in kind.