So if she called on the phone, would you be standing there listening to him talk to her to make sure he isn't saying anything inappropriate?
I know the text messages are about the kids getting together.
First of all, when ever we get involved with someone who is not D yet, it causes more insecurities over all.
Hi, just to clarify a couple of things.
Oh my, OK, that all makes much more sense.
His stbx, no reason for them to talk, except to finalize D.
I guess I'm not explaining myself too well. :(
I know this is going to come off harsh, so I want to apologize now and I'm not trying to be mean or hurtful. Just trying to be honest about what I feel I'm seeing.
First, since you're the GF, and not a Stepmom, I don't think you should be setting up playdates with his son.Secondly,
The choices we make in thought word and deed inevitably return to us in kind.
Hi...I don't think you were being harsh...just honest...and I thank you for that.
When he (we) have the kids, it's up to him to decide where and when they go anywhere.