My fiancee and I are getting married
No, no--you aren't being too nosy.
Musiclover is right.
I also agree with Musiclover that the time to discuss finances is prior to getting engaged. My wife and I were upfront with each other quite early.
It is par for the course for a divorced
You are not being too nosey.
I also agree with others that fiances should be discussed at the very least during engagement.
I agree with all the posters who say that (a) he needs to come clean about his finances and (b) you should not have joint finances after you marry except perhaps for a joint account for household expenses. Keep your credit separate. And don't make the mistake, once you are married, of paying for things for him.
You are entitled to know how much money your husband makes. (And he is entitled to know how much you make.) A certain percentage of each person's income should be set aside for "shared" obligations (house, food, etc.) and