When the Ex-Wife is a financial burden
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|Thu, 12-13-2012 - 4:26pm|
I have been dating my SO for a year now and we both want to get married once his divorce is finalized. He had been seperated from his wife for 2 years, neither party wants any reconciliation and she has been dating. Problem is she was a mess during their marriage and basically cleaned out his bank account. She never held a job and stayed at home. She initiated the divorce and then moved away across country to start a job, only to end up quitting and has now returned to the area. She had been living with a friend, then had a fight and left, now lives in a hotel living off of credit cards (no job) and can't rent an apartment because she has terrible credit. It's a nightmare and I didnt' even want them coming back here, but was happy for my boyfriend because he could see his 9 year old son more often. I want nothing to do with this woman, and my boyfriend can't help her because he is rebuilding his credit. I certainly won't sign for her. What have I gotten into? I love him so much but I don't want this in our lives. I can only pray this woman gets on her feet and eventually remarries. Has anyone ever dealt with this?