am I NUTS!!?? half my age….

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Registered: 12-11-1998
am I NUTS!!?? half my age….
Fri, 02-14-2014 - 8:02am

I met my "boy" friend about 14 months ago--I thought he was older, he thought I was younger....  I am 57 and he is the same age as my son--29.  My daughter is 33.  We have a great time together when we have time-he is a musician and a student going for his master's degree and I teach--we are both in China doing our thing there-in the same city.  Part of me thinks I am nuts for even pursuing this, but the other part of me has fallen in love.  He pursued me in the beginning and then it became a mutual thing.  He likes older women, I like younger men, BUT is this gap too big to even consider??  We do not say that 4-letter word (love) but sometimes I think we are on the same page, others I am not sure we are even in the same bookstore, let alone the same book!!!!  I know there are not so many details here, but--any suggestions????

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Sun, 02-16-2014 - 1:13am

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