Okay ladies, I need some advice. =/
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|Thu, 01-28-2010 - 11:52am|
When I moved out here after Adam and I got married, I told my little brother who is also stationed here that he could stay with us. We have enough room, and I told him to pay $100 rent and half of the cable and Internet bill ( which is ALL he does is watch TV and play on the Internet) At the time, I thought it would be great to have him around and especially while Adam was deployed. Well, I was wrong. It went down hill pretty quickly. We had a talk before Adam deployed, while Adam was deployed, my parents have talked to him, and nothing seems to be working.
He doesn't contribute to the house at all. He cleans his bathroom when I ask him to, but leaves it a mess everyday. (This bathroom is the one people use when they come over) His room is DISGUSTING, I have never asked him to clean it because thats his space that he pays for, but sometimes you can smell it across the house. When Adam was deployed he didn't help me out AT ALL. He might as well have not been there at all. One day I asked him if he would mow the lawn for me, and he just flat said no. We had a nice looooong talk after that. He eats our food and drinks our drinks. I make dinner every night and I rarely hear a thankyou. Last night, we ordered pizza. He asked Adam if he could have some and Adam told him to ask me. He didn't, but Adam told me what went down. So, when the pizza got here I handed him and plate and said "you can have some, but you get to buy the pizza next time" We have bought pizza twice in the past month, and he never even offers to pay anything, so I felt that was more than fair. He acted like I totally offended him, like he is entitled. Then after that he asked us if we had talked about letting his GF come and stay at our house for spring break. (Who I CANNOT stand. She has cheated on him twice and is