Worth The Effort?

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-02-2011
Worth The Effort?
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Sun, 10-02-2011 - 3:42am
Community Leader
Registered: 07-07-2008
Mon, 10-03-2011 - 9:43pm
Only you can judge if he's worth it. Unfortunately, there's no quick easy way to know that he's not going to loose interest once he gets home. He's been putting effort into things so far, so it seems like he is really into it at this point. Personally, taking the risk on a military man was the best thing I ever did. We've been married for almost 3 years now and I couldn't be happier. Good luck!
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-02-2011
Fri, 10-07-2011 - 10:34pm
Thanks for the encouraging words! I'm counting down the days :)
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-18-2011
Tue, 10-18-2011 - 4:58pm
i kno its hard to deal with these things, and im totally new to this site, but me and my army man have been talking everyday since june 10th and he was deployed from june till the beginning of sept, and i have delt with him being with other women, and now that he is home we have been together everyday since, but he wants me to wait a yr to put a label on things, bc he says that the statistics arent so promising on military relationships, so just be strong and if u want to be with this man, then stick to it, dont do anything stupid to throw him in another direction! you have to be a strong willed person to deal with this kind of lifestyle, its very hard and im still trying to manage, but i believe you will be just fine! stay strong dear!!