Hello....

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Hello....
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Sun, 04-06-2003 - 3:54am
hi ladies i am new here only posted a few times it is almost 1 am and i can`t sleep dh has left, after all the waiting i started to breathe easier and thought he might not go...but he is gone:( i am crying now and my girls cried their selves to sleep. aside from praying and eating cookies i am lost at how to cope right now .well talk again soon

love

rece
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Registered: 03-25-2003
In reply to: rececup
Sun, 04-06-2003 - 9:01am
I hope you finally got to sleep. Take some time to adjust to his being away. It may take some time to get into a routine, but it will happen.

And remember, you are allowed to miss him and to hurt right now.

Thinking of you, Jill

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: rececup
Sun, 04-06-2003 - 12:30pm
Cookie therapy for about a week should do it, then you'll have to try to get into a routine. :D You've probably already figured that out though.

((hugs))

Melissa

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: rececup
Sun, 04-06-2003 - 2:01pm
Oh, Rece I'm so sorry he is gone now. I have no valuable suggestions right now. I'm still stumbling around trying to make a routine in preparation of life without DH on the same continent. It is going to be hard to know that I can't call him every night. It is difficult but I'm hoping that I'll get a routine fairly soon. Now that your DH has left mine will be sure to follow in a matter of days.

I'm sending you and the girls big hugs. I know you need them right now. I promise you that you will find a way to get through this deployment. We all will.

Hugs,

Susan

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Registered: 03-19-2003
In reply to: rececup
Sun, 04-06-2003 - 2:39pm
Hang in there! We are praying for all the soldiers safe return!

I hope you and your girls are doing ok today. Huge hugs

Rose