DH is PCS'ing.
I know there is a homeowner's assistance program, but you're only eligible for it if you lose money when you sell your house because you were forced to PCS because of a base realignment/closure.
The problem is, we BOTH own houses.
No one is blaming you for owning a house before you married a military man.
Yuck, I'm sorry things are going like this for you... You're going to have to be REALLY proactive in your solutions though and you have a few.
1) Go through an agent and try to sell ASAP.
The problem is, we can't put his house on the market because he doesn't have orders and won't until just a few weeks before he needs to move - that is what I'm so furious about.
If you have renters in your house, then you shouldn't have to work to cover that mortgage.
Just went through this exact scenario 8 mths ago.