DH is PCS'ing.
Like others have said, how could your husband not expected to PCS?
I just don't see what the point in any of this is anymore.
"To the OP, I don't understand what you want to hear? PCS'ing is a
fact of military life, suggesting that it is to punish you for being
successful , well, that is just ..it just doesn't make any sense"
I don't know why it doesn't make sense.
I agree with everything Amy has so eloquently said.
However, I'm not as nice and I have little to no sympathy for women like you.
I'm glad I was away at the hospital giving birth this weekend or I might have beat Amy to the punch and said some not so nice things also.