I just dropped him off

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I just dropped him off
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Sun, 03-30-2003 - 2:27pm
i was doing so good up until today! I just got home from leaving dh at the gym (and we all know what that means) well my dd didn't cry till we were walking back to the car (she's 4) and said she wished he didn't have to leave! Talk about heartbreaking. SO she and i cried the entire way to the car (i can't stand her being sad!)And now i'm just here with my daughter, cat, and 3 fish alone. And also 16 inch teddy bear that dh gave me to sleep with at night while he's gone that dh named Bearo! Nice name right...lol Well anyways i just wanted to share my day with ya'll Hope to talk to you soon! Shelly
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Sun, 03-30-2003 - 2:31pm
Hang in there, we are all here for you. Hug that Bearo until the stuffing comes out ! He will also be good to mop up your tears when noones looking. HUGS

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Sun, 03-30-2003 - 3:43pm
Boy, it got to me when you talked about your dd. That's when things get really hard for me...when my dd gets upset about it. Doesn't it just break your heart! You are not only hurting for you but them as well!

We all pray this is over fast and they can return home to us! Lots of hugs to you and your family!!

Charady

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Sun, 03-30-2003 - 3:47pm
my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Hang in there! Hold on to that bear and all the warm fuzzy memories of your dh to keep your heart filled with love until he comes home again.

Hugs

Rose

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Sun, 03-30-2003 - 4:00pm
Awww, hugs Shelly. I know how much it hurts to leave each other.

I got a giant Pooh bear from my DH last week before I left. He calls me pooh and hence the bear. But I like the Bearo thing...that is funny. I've slept with mine every night and it has honestly helped.

My thoughts and prayers are with you,

Susan

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Sun, 03-30-2003 - 4:49pm
LOL@ BEARO. Well you are strong, and the time will fly. Just keep yourself busy busy!! I am sure that won't be too hard with a 4 year old. What a fun age! And my Dh gave me a teddy bear that he named "Teddy Beary." LOL Oh the creativity of our men.

HUGS!

~Joni

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Sun, 03-30-2003 - 4:53pm
I've cried so much that my eyes are burning, and my face is raw! Ugg! And yes when dd is upset is breaks my heart into a thousand little pieces! I cried for her i'm so worried about her and everyone is more worried about me?!? We are going to be okay i just know it, we made it thought while he was in korea althought this is totally different! So today i went and bought a nice movie 'An Affair To Remember' I love that movie! DH doesn't like old movies..LMAO but i love'em. Me and bearo can watch with together, hope he's not a bed hog..LMAO Have a nice day or what's left of it ladies :)

~Shelly
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Sun, 03-30-2003 - 9:30pm
aw Shelly, enjoy your movie, and remember Bearo also doesn't mind if you give him a punch now or then.

Mic

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