I know I'm not alone...

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Registered: 02-18-2003
I know I'm not alone...
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Wed, 06-08-2011 - 7:53pm
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Registered: 05-18-2006
Thu, 06-09-2011 - 10:52pm

I have never dealt with this but I am praying for your marriage!

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Registered: 02-01-2007
Thu, 06-09-2011 - 10:01am
I just have to agree with Amy and say I am so sorry you are having to go through this. I can not really imagine the pain and struggle. I do admire you both for working at saving your marriage. I do hope you are able to get the kind of help you need and wish the best for you whatever happens.
That being said I will say that while I did not go through this personally I did have a front row seat when my parents did. It was painful and a long struggle but they are still together. My father was also part of a small military community and while he is now retired, they still have reunions often and this other woman still attends. I know that was especially hard on my mom but she stuck by him and somehow they have found a balance with those events. Hope you can find some peace as well.



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Registered: 10-22-2008
Wed, 06-08-2011 - 10:09pm

I can't relate but I will say that I think it's awesome that the two of you are trying to work things out.

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Registered: 11-08-2006
Wed, 06-08-2011 - 9:44pm
I am sorry you are going through this. I admire that you are willing to try to work to save your marriage. I do know that it's possible for relationships to be saved after something like this and I hope it works out for you if that is what you want. If you do need to walk away, I wish you the best of luck doing so. It is a really terrible situation that you were put in. Take care of yourself through all of this.

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Registered: 02-18-2003
Wed, 06-08-2011 - 8:05pm

PS - I realize there is a board for betrayed spouses, just thought I would post this here to see if I could get a military wives perspective, since there are some unique aspects to military marriage, i.e. - he CAN'T just change jobs to get away from the situation, and he WILL have to deploy again, possibly even with that person.