My best friend hangs out with my Ex!

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-13-2011
My best friend hangs out with my Ex!
Sun, 02-13-2011 - 2:56pm
Community Leader
Registered: 07-07-2008
Sun, 02-13-2011 - 10:01pm
I'm not really sure what you are looking for. You know you need to space yourself from her if she can't respect your request not to talk about him anymore. I'd just flat out tell her that if she continues to talk about him, then you will no longer talk to her. Plain and simple.
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-30-2011
Mon, 02-14-2011 - 12:05pm
On one hand, the dude is your ex so it's no business of yours as to who he's with. You would be pissed if he did the same to you. However, it's taboo to mess with your friend's ex so she's wrong for that.

You've already asked her not to talk to him. She's continued to do so. I think that right there tells you where the value of your friendship rests.