Hey Ladies ,
I have two close friends whose DH's are officers. One couple we really couldn't hang out with together because he was my DH's CO and that can get murky. My other friend, her DH is in a completely different MOS/Brigade so we do things like have dinners with them etc..
My husband is a field grade officer,
Well, my husband is a company grade officer, so no reserved parking spots and no special treatment. (Not that I want either.) He actually deals with higher ranking officers all day and has no supervisory duties, so I'm not sure he even feels like an "officer"
I thought this all went away.
I have socialized with Officer's wives within our squadron. Never thought twice about it.