When the memory begins to be a dream...

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Registered: 04-01-2003
When the memory begins to be a dream...
Tue, 04-08-2003 - 11:53am
hi gals,

i was just discussing this with another gal from this board and thought i'd throw it out to the group for something interesting to talk about...

both of us are dealing with separation from our dh for the first time and hitting over two months (about 2 1/2 for each of us actually) and both decided that the memory of our dh's and our AWESOME relationships are starting to seem more like a dream.... something that didn't really happen but instead maybe was the coolest dream we ever had .

Anyone else have this experience? On the one side, its kind of a good thing to distance yourself from the painful separation in this way, on the other, its kinda scary to lose that connection....

just kinda interesting dont you think?

Tiff, dw to chris


"I've learned
that it is the weak who are cruel,
and that gentleness is to be expected
only from the strong."

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 04-08-2003 - 12:28pm
Well I can definetly see your point. As much as I dream about my dh I also know that the dreams are real and I love to be able to relive them even if they are in my sleep. Dh has been gone before and is gone now. I know that the dreams I have he also has. We have a bond so close that sometimes we dream about the same things. It was wierd at first but then it was so cool. But that is my two cents.