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|Tue, 09-28-2010 - 1:31am|
Hi Ladies, (I'm assuming you are all ladies due to the name, i could be wrong though. LOL)
I am very much in love with a fire fighter. We have had our us and downs. Recently though the emotional distance he keeps with everyone has driven a spike right through our relationship. We are currently on a break because he finds it very demanding to juggle his EMT licensing exam, testing for department, and a relationship. This is very understandable.
I am trying to take this time to find ways to cope with his distance that he usually carries. It is has been hard in our relationship in the places where he comes across as cold and insensitive, when he does in fact care, and can only tell me "it has a lot to do with my training". I know this to be true. But knowing and feeling it are different things altogether.