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|Sat, 03-07-2009 - 12:57pm|
Hey guys :) My name is Kathy I am 21 years old and dating a 21 yr old Firefighter, Chris.
I've been with Chris for 4 months now, we're talking about getting engaged hopefully by the end of the year!
I need your comfort.. I feel silly talking to people about this because I may come off as insecure or immature, but I can't help the way I feel...
Chris is working for a Volunteer department right now, here in South Florida it's hard to find a dept that's hiring... He also started working for Medics ambulance company.
My problem is that I'm having a hard time being comfortable with him working 12 hour shifts one on one with these women emt's and fellow firefighters. He promises me the world and that he'd always be faithful.. But when I don't hear from him for hours at a time, then he calls and tells me about how him and his partner haven't had a post and are just hanging out in the truck or shopping mall, I can't help but get that twisty sick feeling in my stomach...
My father had an emotional affair with a woman at work and I'm so scared that my man will do the same to me...
I just need comfort from those who may have felt this way :( I feel so silly but unfortunately I can't help but feel this way :(
Edited 3/7/2009 6:23 pm ET by xoiceox