New here need advice!!!!

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Registered: 06-26-2003
New here need advice!!!!
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Wed, 09-17-2003 - 11:08pm
Hi. I want to know how you all deal with women who just LOVEEEE men in uniform. The other day my husband was on a call and the woman asked if he was happily married and he said yes. She then said you know what I need??? She said she sure needed some lol..When he said no she said if you ever change your mind you know where to find me....These women make me soooo mad.....How do you handle these situations?????? Tina
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Registered: 03-19-2003
Thu, 09-18-2003 - 7:47am
Yeah those Badge Bunnies are a dime a dozen ... and not even worth that. That are pathetic and not worth the energy it takes to worry about what to do about them. I tend to ignore their idiotic behavior.

Talk it out with your dh and develop a plan ... when someone like that calls and says "Are you happily married" -- he should say "Yes" and HANG UP.

Hugs and welcome!

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 09-18-2003 - 10:24am
Totally understand why you're upset but it's just best to ignore it and have faith and trust in your DH and your relationship.

I think every profession has a 'bunny' of some sort -- I have a friend who likes lawyers. it's just one of those things that you learn to identify and eventually laugh over.

I'm sure some cops like the bunnies but most find it annoying.

This isn't really a big problem for me. DH has a few 'bunnies' approach him a few times a year but it's not like he gets hit on every single night he's out working. But what do I care? I got the man they want and he always comes home to me ;).

good luck and keep posting! we're glad to have ya!

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Registered: 04-24-2003
Sat, 09-20-2003 - 3:23pm
Well, there are no "Badge Bunnies" in our community so this hasn't come up with us. But I can see my DH reminding the individual that such a comment borders on solicitation. That might shut someone up, the implication that she is a prostitute! Actually, I know DH would just ignore the comment and probably not even tell me later as insignificant an event it would be in his daily shift.




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Registered: 03-19-2003
Sat, 09-20-2003 - 3:30pm
But I can see my DH reminding the individual that such a comment borders on solicitation. That might shut someone up, the implication that she is a prostitute!

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Registered: 03-25-2003
Mon, 09-22-2003 - 5:24pm
Actually I think that most of those type of comments directed at my DH do come from prostitutes! oh my. lol.

ahhh ... life in the world of a cop ;).



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