Is my GF testing me, or is she not ready for a relationship?
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|Thu, 07-10-2014 - 12:14am|
I need a woman's perspective on this. I am a 48 yo widower guy of Middle Eastern origin, a physician, have 2 young girls. Recently met (online) a woman who's significantly younger than I am, also of Middle Eastern origin. We went out a few times and we seem to have hit it off. We even started talking about potentially getting married. On the Fourth of July weekend we went dancing for the first time. Overall we had fun and a good time. But on one occasion during she told me "not to be glued to her like this" in the club. On the same evening she went to the restroom and I waited outside the club for her for over 20 mins. When she finally came out she said there was a line to the restroom, and that on her way out a song that she liked was playing so she started dancing to it alone, and of course shortly she was approached by a guy who wanted to dance with her- all while I'm waiting outside for her.
I don't know about you but this strikes me a bit as inconsiderate. To leave me waiting while she's dancing alone and then dancing with another guy. I just wanted a tally of opinions:
Is she testing me to see if I'm going to be too possessive since I'm much older?
is it normal for her to continue to want other guys' attention in the club given her age?,
is she just out to play and not ready for a relationship?,
or am I just a grumpy old fart?
Thanks for your input