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Sun, 01-01-2012 - 11:03pm
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Registered: 04-16-2008
Mon, 01-02-2012 - 12:36am
Can you switch to another dept, where you won't have to run into him so much?
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-20-2011
In reply to: lia_2011
Mon, 01-02-2012 - 12:26pm
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-16-2008
Mon, 01-02-2012 - 1:15pm
That's the problem with men having affairs. When the wife finds out most of them will quickly throw the OW under the bus by trying to put the blame on her. He will tell the wife that the OW kept coming on to him and eventually he gave in. Anything to make you look like the seducer and him the victim of your seduction. You can try to avoid him as much as possible and wait this out cause your feelings for him may eventually diminish as time goes by. But if you don't think they will and if working there is just too painful, your best bet may be to get away from him for good and find another job. GOOD LUCK.
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Registered: 11-20-2011
In reply to: lia_2011
Mon, 01-02-2012 - 1:33pm
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Registered: 04-23-2010
Mon, 01-02-2012 - 1:50pm

Try the HEALING LIBRARY over on the Ending an Affair Support

We only miss what could have been. I know I don't miss what it really was.

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Registered: 11-20-2011
In reply to: lia_2011
Mon, 01-02-2012 - 3:40pm