Afraid and Fearful

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-23-2012
Afraid and Fearful
5
Wed, 04-04-2012 - 5:47am

I have no where to turn to, but these message boards.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-26-2010
Wed, 04-04-2012 - 7:41am
There is a book out there called "when good people have affairs" it might help you pin point the reason you allowed yourself to cross the line.
Living in limbo is a tough place to be, only time is going to show you which direction your life will be taking.
Continue to be supportive of your spouses feelings, give him room to work through things, also be careful to project what you think he should feel. After all only he truly understands that. I wish you peace, be strong, you will make it through this to the other side! (((Hugs)))
~Sunny~
Community Leader
Registered: 05-23-2003
Wed, 04-04-2012 - 11:03am
It gets better, sweetie - I promise it does.

You're in the worst stage of things right now, so fresh out after your d-day, and it is totally normal for you to be a mess right now.

This is a process, and it isn't something that can be rushed through, unfortunately.

But please don't lose hope. It really does get better, honey.

Big hugs,

Kim

    

Community Leader
Registered: 06-08-2010
Wed, 04-04-2012 - 8:37pm

Oh, Lost, sweetie.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-23-2012
Wed, 04-11-2012 - 3:43pm
Thank you for your book recommendation. It is a great book that has really helped me over the last weeks. You have no idea how much it has helped me.
Community Leader
Registered: 05-23-2003
Thu, 04-12-2012 - 1:09pm
How are you doing, Lost? How are things going?

Hugs,

Kim