APs everywhere!

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Registered: 12-19-2011
APs everywhere!
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Tue, 06-05-2012 - 12:36am
Ok so here is one thing I've noticed about the after-affair me (wasn't this a topic recently, our Post-a selves?)
Everywhere I look - when I see men I see them so differently. Having had As and been on the boards knowing so many have had As...it is like I see every man as a possible AP or i think to myself "is he having an A" or even about.women "is she having an A?" actually quite.frequently about women. Especially when I see families ("oh i wonder how happy.they are") or moms out with.their kids, just like me...I wonder what secrets or.double lives people have...I wonder.sometimes about my friends...the ones who don't know i had As...who's cheated or had the thoughts...and back to the men out there, it is like they all appear different to me...like anyone could be a potential partner....like they look at me.differently... My whole.view on men, women, married or not...it is all A-tainted!
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Registered: 10-29-1998
Re: APs everywhere!
Sat, 06-09-2012 - 11:51pm

Born, raised and now back in the bible belt and I think you are right. I have know of a number of affairs among the "faithful". Hold your head high, no one is perfect.

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Registered: 10-29-1998
Sat, 06-09-2012 - 11:57pm

Interesting thread. Even though the only affairs I have had have been on line affairs, I look at every woman and wonder if they have or would. You ladies seem to have your heads on straight.  Thanks for an enlightening thread.